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Physical intimacy isn’t just about exploration and excitement! It’s also about grounding, closeness, and shared control. A position that combines playfulness with deep physical presence is The Hot Seat. This upright, face-to-face position promotes connection, confidence, and mutual rhythm; making it a fantastic choice for couples who want to stay emotionally and physically engaged throughout the experience.
Read MoreAs a kid, I never really knew what I wanted to do. I grew up in a neighborhood and went to a school that was highly competitive and excellence was always the expectation. My parents raised me to be an oil & gas CEO, and since I didn’t really know what my skills were, I followed their plan until my junior year of college. Since higher-level empathy skills are some of the last skills that our brain develops towards the end of its development (around 25 years old), I started noticing during my time in college that I was really adept at sensing people’s emotions.
Read MorePhysical closeness isn’t just about pleasure – it’s also about emotional connection, communication, and vulnerability. One position that invites partners into a space of trust and intimacy is The Snake. With its slow nature and emphasis on skin-to-skin contact, this position is perfect for couples looking to cultivate intimacy and emotional closeness.
Read MoreSo how does one begin to broach the subject of sex with a new partner or in a long-standing relationship? Sex is one of the most intimate and sometimes vulnerable domains we enter into, so it’s natural that we may feel a sense of shyness or hesitation when wanting to initiate a conversation about our sexual desires.
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Intimacy is a crucial part of any romantic relationship, and exploring new ways to connect physically can deepen emotional bonds, increase excitement, and enhance overall satisfaction. One position that combines sensual movement with deep connection is The Rocking Horse. This position is all about rhythm, closeness, and a smooth, rocking motion that can create an intimate and pleasurable experience for both partners.
Read MoreMaintaining a fulfilling intimate life is an essential part of a healthy relationship. Exploring new positions can be a fun and meaningful way for couples to enhance connection, deepen trust, and discover new sensations together. One unique position that balances closeness, comfort, and novelty is The Pretzel. This side-angled position offers an intimate, intertwined experience that promotes both emotional and physical connection.
Read MoreIt isn’t too hard to convince people that taking care of our bodies is good and healthy, especially around the start of a new year. We don’t have shame around hitting up the gym, going to the doctor, or getting a full 8 hours of sleep.
Read MoreFrom an early age, we have been taught that talking about sex is awkward and shameful. We use words like “no-no square” or “private parts” which teaches us that our sexual body parts are wrong or dirty, our parents are uncomfortable in talking about it with us and often never talk about it, and schools typically only focus on reproductive sex. So, once we are sexually active adults, we often haven’t built up a comfort in talking around sex in general, and especially with our sexual partners. Is that a problem? Yes, yes it is. Let me explain…
Read MoreLet’s talk about sexual “performance.” If you are like most people that have ever talked about their sexual experience or “ability,” you have likely thought of or talked about your “sexual performance,” being able to “perform sexually,” or “having performance issues.”
Read MoreWhen it comes to maintaining a vibrant and connected relationship, intimacy is about more than just physical closeness—it’s about fostering emotional connection, trust, and communication. One position that embodies all these qualities is The Face Off. This seated, intimate position emphasizes eye contact, emotional closeness, and mutual pleasure, making it a fantastic choice for couples seeking a deeper connection.
Read MoreWhen it comes to cultivating healthy, intimate relationships, communication, trust, and shared exploration are essential. For couples who are looking to deepen their emotional and physical connection, a thoughtful approach to physical intimacy can be a powerful tool.
Read MoreThis blog article has been shared so many times since originally writing in 2018! Due to the sheer number of times our office is asked about these questions, I wanted to provide an updated blog with the latest book recommendations!
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